Why?

Why did it turn out like this?
Why did she turn her back on me?
Why did he ignore me?
Why me?
Why did he give me this kind of work?
Why are you mad at me?
Why did she stare at me?
Why did she say that to me?

Why...why...and why. Okay, I am human like you. With flesh and bone easily scratched and broken. I do complain like others and I do whine when I feel like doing it. But, if you complain just to make sure the attention is fixed on you or you complain the same thing everytime just to find a topic to start a conversation, that's not a good idea. NOT AT ALL! Okay, I never said that you can't complain at all but be rational. Complaining is a good behaviour, of course. Why? Coz it is one way for you to reveal or to say your dissatisfaction towards someone or something and it's a way to ask an opinion on how to solve a problem indirectly. For example, 'Eh, rambut aku ni kasar giler. Boleh buat berus sabut.' Then your friend might suggest a few kind of shampoo to fix your problem. See, that settles a problem. But, if you keep bugging your friend about the same thing, tell me who won't be annoyed?

Complaining won't solve a problem unless you say it to the right person. You don't talk and talk and let the matters hanging. You talk and talk and you figure out what you have to do to solve it. You have to have courage to speak to the person involved or find out a solution to make sure the same thing won't happen again. Or else, it'll be a never ending story. (juz like my work....see I'm complaining again!) and you'll keep suffering the same thing again.